Wedding Photography Tips #21: To see each other or to not see each other

It’s really the biggest time line subject of the entire wedding.   It will determine what photos are done before and which after.  It determines how much time you spend with your guests.  But there’s also so many traditions, emotions and expectations wrapped up into the decision too.  I personally saw my husband before the ceremony and I absolutely don’t regret it.  I knew I didn’t want all the emotion of seeing my husband for the first time be walking down the long church aisle with 200 people starring at me.  That pretty much freaked me out.  But that’s me.

If you decide to see each other before the ceremony you can still make the moment special and beautiful.   You can make it as private or public as you want.  Brides, you can still walk up to your fiance, and believe me the fact that it’s not your ceremony won’t take away from seeing each other.  And you can embrace and kiss and cry all you want without having to get on with show, if you know what I mean.  After you see each other there’s plenty of time to take all the necessary photos before guest even arrive.  Then after the ceremony you’re free to enjoy your guests and all the hard work you put into the day.

First Look Photo

If you choose to not see each other before, that’s fine too.  Everyone needs to do what they feel is right for them.  Photos are just held after the ceremony and might need additional time before the reception starts.  Nobody wants to feel rushed so be sure to walk through the time line and make sure there’s plenty of time for everything.